Find your Sisters
& Brothers!
We're a not-for-profit association in London on a mission to strengthen community around early motherloss, and to provide daughters, sons and families with the support they need to flourish!
WE OFFER
Peer 2 PEER NetWorking,
Socials
&
Events
LONDON
We currently organise events and gatherings in London for adult daughters who were under 21 at motherloss. If you’re a son or a father sign up join our waiting list!
We’re working with the fantastic charity Sister System and are soon to pilot our Peer Wellbeing and Mentoring programme for groups of motherless daughters aged 13-21. If you’re a daughter or a parent, or represent a school in North or Central London please register your interest here!
SCHOOL TALKS
&
BEREAVEMENT TRAINING
NORTH & CENTRAL LONDON
One in 20 young people lose a parent early. As of September’ 26 bereavement policies policies are now mandatory in schools! If you’re a school or mental health practitioner in London and are interested in training or school talks , please contact us!
PEER NETWORKING & EVENTS - LONDON
Losing a mum isn’t something to hide and its not uncommon. It’s something to share with the people around who get it! There are actually dozens of local people in your area in the exactly same boat. You just have to find them! Join us and help us build a network.
DAUGHTERS UNDER 21
PEER MENTORING - LONDON
If you’re under 21, live in London and are interested in joining our peer group mentoring programme please tell us a little bit about yourself and join our waiting list.
Learn more.
Network with other women. Make friends, share your experiences and guidance or help us host events in London for younger motherless daughters and families. Here
If you’re a father or guardian of motherless children, or if you’re the son of a motherless family, sign up to attend local networking events for peer support and connection. Here
WHY IT MATTERS
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Early motherloss is taboo even though every 22 minutes a young person loses a parent in the UK. That’s 111 children every day, around 40 in every school.
– Childhood Bereavement Network UK -
The loss of mothering happens in many ways, not just through death. One child in every 20 in the UK are referred to social services, the highest numbers in history. Neglect is the number one reason.
- UK Department for Education -
The number of children without mothering is rising in the UK because the underlying causes, such as poverty, maternal death rates and mental health problems are growing.
– various sources -
'.. it may not actually be the wide spectrum of childhood adversity that drives poor outcomes, but the degree to which that adversity drives shame, guilt, anger, alienation and degree of social isolation.'
- A.Garner (2021) Preventing Childhood Toxic Stress
NEWS
Christmas Meetup, Hampstead, Sat December 20th 12:45-3PM
We would love you to join us for Christmas drinks/lunch in a Hampstead pub near the tube station. For adults 18+. Venue disclosed on R.S.V.P.
Shifting London Start Up Graduation Event
March 18, 2025 We’ve just graduated (again) at City Hall together with 40 other social entrepreneurs who took part in Shifting London’s Start Up …
Raise Up Finchley; Our First Community Outreach Event
Raise Up Finchley Our first Community Outreach Event Photini June 9, 2024 A 25 year-old gazing at our stand who had lost her mum only a week earlier…
Creating an Identity for Early Motherloss
The idea of building a visual identity for a community I’d rather not have the privilege to join, is an interesting task. Some context…